Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: I am not shallow, it is just such a problem being ´ugly´ especially to this girl she´s really shallow and I guess it´s down to her ignorance how can I make her see me as a person? Thank you.

Answer: First of all dude… You’re not ugly. How do I know even though I haven’t met you? Because 99% of the time a guy says he’s ugly, he’s just an average guy. So two things here:

1) Unless you’re deformed in some serious manner, you’re not ugly
2) Even if you’re ugly, I got some good news for you… You’re a guy. And as a guy, you have this benefit that women (from a biological standpoint) are a lot less interested in looks than us guys. Rich ugly guys get laid, rich ugly women do not. Socially popular, charismatic guys get laid EVEN if they’re ugly… Socially popular, charismatic (but ugly) girls, don’t get laid that much more than the average-looking girl.

So, the answer is, to get her to like you, you need confidence, self-esteem, charm and charisma. And how do you get those? (besides following my quiz and this site’s tips)… Well, you focus on befriending and making as many female friends as you can. Focus on building yourself up. Get as many hobbies, interests and activites as possible. Become GOOD or excellent at something. Like become an awesome guitar player, or famous at your photography club, or become a club manager… Just focus on building yourself up, and you WILL get a mini-”rockstar effect”…

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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