Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasn’t taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Often when drinking in the pub, I notice quite a few nice girls around, but even with far too much alcohol in me, I still get too nervous to go up and introduce myself.

Can anyone give some advice?
Just to add, I find it near impossible to talk to girls sober, I just run out of things to say >_<

Answer: Hey man, there’s a ton of ways you can do this, try to combine a few of these…

1) Don’t put pressure on yourself. Remember you will not get, marry, have sex with or get a date with most women you approach at the bar. Even the best in the world only end up just having a chat most of the time. So if you know this, make it your goal to just chat, with no obligations. This will make it much, much easier.

2) Find buddies that want to do the same and have the same goal that you do. You will encourage one another.

3) Try the “approaching for a friend” trick. This makes approaching extremely easy. Basically, have your friend point out girls he finds cute, so you approach them in his name. You approach them asking them if they’d like you to introduce them to him. Kind of like “hey my friend over there finds you cute, want me to introduce you”? The funny thing is this is 5 times easier to do then approach in your own name. If you do this enough times, you’ll get so comfortable approaching girls, you’ll eventually transition into approaching girls in your own name

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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