Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

How come today a majority of guys look at girls as easy to play with their heart and break it, why don’t they see a girl they really like as the sweet,precious creature she is. Like when my Grandpa and Grandma got married, he wouldn’t have even been thinking about hurting her heart.

My quick answer to this question:

I’m running this question here guys so you get a sense of how girls view the world. Do you see how confused she is and completely misunderstands guys? She actually believes that most guys are like this.

Why is this important? Because this is what you have to deal with. Anytime you go talk to a girl… if you’re a nice-wuss she sees you as the friend-brother-like-guy… Or if you act attractive at all, she immediatelly assumes you’re an asshole and becomes defensive.

So what’s the solution for you? Well, the solution is NOT to become a super-submissive-nice-guy… It never works. Don’t immediatelly go and approach girls saying stuff like “hey i will never break your heart, i’m not that kinda guy”… In her warped mind, that means you’re not an attractive guy, because she’s convinced that all guys are like that.

Your solution? You have no obligation to control or be responsible for other people’s interpretations. As long as you are honest and direct, you will get hot girls in a way full of integrity.

Here’s what NOT to do:

- Don’t ever pretend you’re intereted in more if you’re not. Believe it or not, girls have no problem with just casual, no-strings-attached, sex-based relationships. Don’t believe the bullshit that you need to act like marriage-material in order to get laid. This will just end up hurting her. If you act like a boyfriend, but only want sex, she will get hurt. There is no need to do this, plenty of hot girls are open to casual relationships when they’re not taken.

Here’s what TO do:

- Befriend these girls, and treat the same way you would a close male friend… open yourself up the same way you would to a male friend… The only difference? Its a friendship exactly like those male-buddies, except you have sex with her. Never pretend you’re a boyfriend, in fact, from day one, talk about other girls you like, the same way you’d talk to your male buddies. Trust me, when she gets horny, she has lesbian sex with her female friends. She’d prefer a male-buddy to satisfy that need while she’s single. Its ok dude.

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