Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I don’t feel right just going up to them in a grocery store or something.
Answer: Well, if you don’t, then don’t do it yet. Here’s a secret that will save you a lot of heartache and years wasted going on the wrong path… If you don’t yet have the courage to ask a hot girl out, walking straight up to them in random places like the grocery store will just end up in a lot of pain for both of you. She’ll be intimidated/creeped out, and you’ll be rejected.
The reason this happens is that when you don’t have the courage to do something, you tend to come across creepy. So start off small, start off with the safe little stuff. Do the following two things:
1) Approach and ask out hot girls in SAFE environments, these are environments where women are expecting to meet people, and where they will be nice and approachable even if you’re nervous and shy… This is places like the photography club, cooking lessons, yoga class, dance class, volunteer groups, etc… etc… No matter how much of a newb you are, you will get great reactions in these places. And great reactions will build up your confidence
2) In the places that are less safe and require more charisma and skill (streets, grocery stores, malls), you need to and want to start off with small and safe options. Just go around and do small stuff like ask her which fruit she thinks is better in the grocery store, or ask them for directions, or just do a quick excuse to just start a conversation (asking where she got a shirt or whatever)… The key is you genuinelly have to NOT hit on her, and not want anything more from her than just touch base and open up communication. Do this until you get so comfortable that you notice these women are opening up to you and inviting you to do more. That way you will never get rejected, and you will naturally build up to the point where you can ask out and pick up girls on the street, malls, stores etc…
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