Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
How can i get girls, any tips? Im 15 and im not ugly, in fact, i’ve been told that that im freakin cute. But i just cant go up to a girl and just talk to her, any tips?
My answer:
I was in the same situation as you. Good-looking, but extremely shy. I want to save you years that I went through learning how to be successful with women. I am a member of the seduction community for almost 5 years now. And only in the last 2 years have I started to somewhat progress with women.
I can’t tell you in this article how to become successful with women. I can only give you some guidelines to some great experts.
If you are interested in the seduction community, I recommend that for the first two years, you study a product called Advanced Dating Techniques by David DeAngelo. I urge you not to study any other product for years! This is crucial!
In parallel, you can also visit these 2 websites: http://www.datinggroundwork.com/ and http://www.succeedsocially.com/.
All this will be enough to help you for years to come. I urge you again, do not fall into the trap of downloading dozens of products! Stay on those 2 suggestions that I gave you. Follow that for at least 2 years.
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shoot the girl
suck it up. you have to be in it to win it. youll miss 100% of your shots… that you dont take
just go for it
Just try saying “Hello” to a girl, ask her how her day’s going, what things she’s into, see if you have any common interests and then you can discuss those, that will hep you to get over your shyness and then you’ll be abel to get a girl.
1. Compliment her. Don’t say “You’re pretty.” but something more specific. Guys who compliment me about something I say are hot because this means they aren’t just into looks.
2. Sit two seats down from her at lunch. She’ll think that you like her at least as a friend.
3. Ask her for help on a question in class.
these are fun to answer because I remember what this was like. The best thing about being a man is that you get to choose who you want to talk to – the worst thing is you have to start the talking. My advice to you is to bite the bullet and go for it. Rejection is very difficult, but you simply must get over it. Practice makes perfect. Just consider walking up and saying hi as practice. Most girls (if you are normal and half way cute) will say hi back. They are just as nervous. Good luck!
just talk to them, don’t go up with the mind set to date them, just be her friend and I’m telling you, things will eventually work themselves out !!! and good luck young man !!!