Here is some guy (courtesy of yahoo answers), asking how to get a girl to go out with you. Now, its obvious he hasn’t taken my secret quiz for guys, but I’ll answer his question anyway…

Question

So theres this girl, Shes popular and cute. I really want to get to know her and talk to her. I never get the chance to talk to her, we dont have any of the same classes. She seems like the perfect girl. Shes kinda out of my league. Should i try to get to know her, or wait till i get into college and get older where popularity dosent matter? I need some help. Thank you

My quick answer to this question:

You can’t “get a girl” to go out with you. What you can do is provide the opportunity for her to REVEAL her desire to go out with you. You can be the best you, which if she’s attracted to, she will want to go out with you. I’m sorry, that’s reality. The good news is… This approach saves you rejection, humiliation, and coming across as creepy.

Just walk up to her, introduce yourself and genuinelly just get to know her. In short, the answer to your question “how to get a girl you’ve never talked to before” is… GO TALK TO HER… Lol. You’re then no longer a guy she hasn’t talked to before. If you believe she’s out of your league, she will be… So, at worst case, just use it as a learning lesson.

You know what the single most attractive trait in guys is for women? Confidence! And how do you get confidence? By failing and succeeding a lot, and learning from a bunch of experience. The way to get confident with women is go talk to a bunch of women (and men, and old people, and little kids… you get the point)…

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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