Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
How do you get a girls attention? Like Im 13 years old and I like this girl at my school I have asked this question before on yahoo. But they basically told me to talk to her. I want to know how to speak to her in a way that she would pay more attention to me and hopefully ask her out and she would say yes. please help im not very good with talking to girls and when i do i get shy.
My answer:
Okay, so you’re in a tight spot somewhat. I’ll tell you what not to do first. Don’t act like every other childish guy out there. Don’t try to impress her by doing something dumb or dangerous. Take care of yourself first.
Whoever told you to talk to her, was very right. If you are shy, don’t go up to her like you are trying to pick her up or something. Go with the mindset of making a new friend. Take it easy and the fear will diminish.
So, talk to her about anything. Try to not seem so nervous. Don’t try to impress her with anything. Act like you act with your brother or sister. Don’t think of it as a big deal.
If you act like everything is okay, she will too.
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Say hello to her and ask her if she wants to go and do something cool… you should have an idea about what she likes…
Something like
“Hi, I’ve noticed that you like …., well, I’ve just got some tickets / a new one / whatever and thought that you’d like to…”
Maybe you’re in the same class for something? You could always ask for her help / offer her help on a subject.
good for you. .this is not a computer question. post it in the correct portion.
to ur question. be a guy.. be bold don’t be afraid. if she’s interested in you she’ll continue with you. otherwise she’ll simply carry on and you do the same. don’t be disheartened. there’s always someone out there who loves you.
take a speech class, or take a class that she is taking so you will have something in common to talk about.
Figure out what she is interested in. Bring the interests up in a random conversation. Also Try and find her on myspace. It seems to be the easiest way for teens today to talk to people they like. My daughter does this all the time. Boys that like her seem to find it easier to talk to her this way.Good luck!
I’m 13 too well just try being funny every girl loves a guy to be funny just talk to her too try to be spontaneous and fun so she will become intrested in u
me having two sisters and most of my friends are girls they like it when people talk to them and don’t get shy. Get to Know her but don’t ask her the question because then she will eventualy dump you for another guy.
im a shy guy around girls too… usually it is hard to talk to girls when you think they have no interest in you…
you have to go talk to her in the confidence that she likes you… then u will be more comfortable and loose… therefore more smoooth… talk about common things or interests you guys have.. then in the end say, hey do u like to bowl? then ask her out for a night of bowling or something.. good luck kid..
Say hello to lots of girls.Get more comfortable just talking, if only about the weather. Some talk back, some won’t. Don’t get upset if a girl you weren’t hoping for likes you. If your girl don’t like you, suffer, and find another.
Say HI to her and ask her if she would like to sit with you at lunch.
most of the comments about just palin talkling to her are right on…
but if they dont work,.. and like you said,. you want to talk to her and have her pay attention,…
then talk to her naked! You’ll obviously have her complete attention in this case! And,. its also spontaneous as other people advise you to be
good luck!
here’s hat you do, slap her on the a s s, and say “NICE TlTS” that will get her attention for sure
You know every girl is different. It’s ok to be shy. But just make sure you are being yourself because you want her to like you for you, not for this person you are pretending to be. Also if you wait untill she is not with all her friends it will be easer, find out what she likes and is into and make converstation from there.
Dont worry everything will be just fine. Remember you are still pretty young, it will get easier with time and you will get better with practice.
O, I almost forgot. Make sure you are being nice to her friends.
Send her a box of chocolates via one of her friends. The next time she sees you, she may smile at you and come over to say
“Thanks” Then you grab your chance to ask her out.
Well You seem to express yourself very well, so talking should not be a problem. On the shy part well try not to be or just act as if you are not, Remember She is just a human. The fact that you like her makes you shiver, well pretend to yourself that you are not shy, remember that she is just a human. Pay lots of attention to what she likes or desires, you need to pay attention to what she says, girls love to be listened to and must of all do not try to touch her. have respect. You see, must boys just want one thing, be different want the girl not just the “Thing:” You know what I mean? My self, I usually ignore them, this makes them curious of you and want to know why you are different and are not there just salivating like a wolf. Hope this Helps my Friend.
My personal input. I would pay more attention in school and become some one. Worry about girls after.
first off…..just be yourself…..dont try to fake it to impress her
the bes way is too find away into a conversation she is in and try to gain her attention..that way u might break the ice if u talk to her with ppl around…then when u 2 see each other while alone for any period of time u might not feel tongue tied or shy…once u have broken the ice…dont jump right in and ask her out…u have to build up to it…once u all start hanging out or seeing each other more…then u know its time to ask…if she puts u off or ignores u.then u know she probally isnt interested
dont worry…ur 13..u will most likely talk to her and thousand more..try to have fun…not no serious relationship…ur too young for what could become…just enjoy being a youngter while u can….bang bang
if that dont work…show her ur tongue…lol
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