Some chick from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, i ussually don’t answer girls’ questions here, as this is a site for advice for men (just like the secret quiz), but ignore that, and focus on her question, and how I answer it. From this you will find out how girls think, and what GIRLS go through…

Question: I met a guy at school this year, and I’ve grown to like him. He’s just an all around great guy. He’s funny, athletic, smart, nice, and cute. He’s like that perfect guy you don’t want to let slip away. The thing is he’s a nice guy who is friends with a lot of girls. I don’t want to get stuck as being just his friend. How do I set myself apart from being just another friend?

Answer:

First, you could ask around if the find’s you attractive. That would help a lot.

But, if you really like him that much, then you could just go for him whether you are sure that he is attracted to you or not. I would suggest the second option.

Have you flirted with him? Does he show you any signs of liking you? Your a girl, you should know this stuff

Guys usually can’t hide their interest in a woman. But, this guy may be as scared as you in showing interest.

So, go ahead, make the first move. Guys don’t react as bad to first moves as women do. He’ll be very flattered if you do it even if he is not interested in you.

You can make your move in small steps. You could first start touching him a bit more and see how he reacts. I was in the same situation as you once. I was the guy, and I wasn’t even aware that my friend was trying to seduce me. I found out when she we were talking about kissing and she asked if we could kiss “just so she could see how I kiss and give me a grade on it ”…

That’s as far as answering her question goes. I hope reading her worries and perspectives from a girl’s side makes things clearer for you…

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